[Youtube Review][TED] What really matters at the end of life | BJ Miller

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Playtime Comments : [TED] What really matters at the end of life | BJ Miller

Ha*********:

" It has been a liberation to realize you can always find a shock of beauty or meaning in what life you have left, like that snowball lasting for a perfect moment, all the while melting away :) " 18:12

Ve*********************:

2:45 Design Thinking - Intention & Creativity

En*********:

1:54 the way he said "but" was cute, in my opinion

E*:

18:26 "If we love such moments ferociously, then maybe we can learn to live well -- not in spite of death, but because of it.

Let death be what takes us, not lack of imagination."

SM************:

4:19 this simple sentence literally changed my entire perspective regarding my disability. I think that sentence might have just changed my life.

Da******:

Its clear when you look at his eyes and his speaking you fill pain but I think I am not feel sympathy but proud of ....
2:10 pm ftw 30/10/2020

Fa*****:

1:22 it means one who suffers. So I guess we’re all patients... yoooo

km**:

He is holding up so much inside himself. His eyes are welled up throughout. But at 15:02 he was on the edge of it, and God knows how he has been gave this TedTalk. Salute to this man!

di********:

14:02
What a line

 

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Top Comments : [TED] What really matters at the end of life | BJ Miller

Da**********:

"Maybe we can learn to live well, not in spite of death, but because of it". He killed it right there. No pun intended.

pa*******:

"Let death be what takes us, not lack of imagination"

Ca**********:

I have to say it, He is very handsome!

An***:

The silver tsunami is coming our way. And we are not prepared!!!!

Ka********:

I’ve watched this Ted Talk so many times I’ve lost count.
There’s a documentary about Zen Hospice.
Worth watching that, as well.

JV**:

His eyes speak of how badly he wants us to understand where he is coming from, and that we, too, will realize the importance of his message. I’m grateful for having the opportunity of watching this today

AR*****:

While this mans words were comforting & filled with hope of a better way for life to end. I can not help but sence a huge sadness coming from him! I don't think his talk was meant to elicit sadness. However it was hard for me to watch because of the crushing sadness I sensed. Nonetheless, this was a beautifully talk. Given by a beautiful & humble human being!
Thank you for sharing.

En**************:

Watching this in these difficult days of corona ....

Sa**************:

What a beautiful human being. I'm so inspired. Thank you.

Th*****:

I broke my back for 14 years ago, and now i live in constant agonizing pain and can hardly sit down or do anything. Your view of the world change when that happens to you, i don´t have much friends anymore but i appreciate even the smalles little thing i see every day now and i appreciate so much when i spend time with people, i try to find the good in anything

Fr******************:

No legs, seen Death in the face, and regular people complain everyday about nothing . BJ Miller you define Inspiration. Thank You.

va*********:

His eyes. They indicate wisdom. A wisdom that only comes from having been through a lot of suffering. And also, from having overcome it.

lo*******:

I still remember the first dog I saw after living in the hospital for a year. he wasn't even a rehab dog. just someone's pet. I cried and cried. I never thought I'd see a dog again.

Bi**********:

I didn't think I could watch this all the way through, but I did. I am at or near the end of my journey through life being accompanied by Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis. His talk, in a strange way, at least in my mind, gave me some hope that I will accept my death gracefully. At 74 I have lived a decent life but I wish I would have had a little more time, but that wasn't in the cards. Glad I found this vid.

Fo****************:

This reminded me of the book “Tuesdays With Morrie” by Mitch Albom.

Vi**********:

Best line
"I guess we all are patients"

Si**********:

They tell you to act "authentically" & this Dr has mastered it naturally. A victim of his own device :(

Yo*****************:

Im 16 , I’m surrounded by a few people but I always feel lonely I feel like I’m alone and can’t engage with people anymore cause of my trust issues and because I’m obese people always find me as an easy target to play with , although I might act like I don’t care sometimes but I’m a very sensitive person and every single word someone tells me really hits deep I feel like I can’t really express myself which ruined my ability to speak and socialize with people . Since the corna-virus epidemic hit us , iv been at my lowest point ever since.

se********:

An unusually elegant talk, especially about death.
God bless this man and all his patients.

Ba*********:

It's presentations like these that make me love TED

Za*******:

His eyes say so much about himself....I couldn't listen to him much because his eyes are louder than his voice. Suddenly my life's problem seemed so small.

Ji******:

I aided both my parents through the dying process. My Dad was 77 with cancer a really bad kind. My focus was on keeping pain away. I did take him on his last big trip BUT I now regret just sitting with him and retelling our experiences through life. And I forgot about music. I should have kept his music playing until the end. My Mom choose when she would die. She didn't want to be a burden at 99 years old as I traveled 20 min every day to care for her. I should have made it clear that it was not my job but my love to be there. And I forgot about the music. I'm going to go fairly soon and my sons will take care of me to the end. I have to impress upon them what I need at the end and above all there shall be music.

Ad*************:

"Let death be what takes us; not lack of imagination"

Xi***********:

This beautiful man holds a
hurtful painful sadness.
Maybe one day he’ll realize
that it wasn’t his time.

fr**********:

This guy is just incredible...!!! I was mesmerized by his sincerity, and he's eye-candy...too... <3

Ry**:

This guy speaks like an author... very articulate and descriptive. Great talk!!

Ka*************:

"I'm a physician..."
Me: What am I doing with my life?

He is amazing.

es**:

This and all the wonderful comments tell me that we can treat each other more kindly than it appears we do at present.

Th*********:

My biggest thing is loneliness
I am so tired of being lonely
I have a construction company I am 62. I work about 6 1/2 days a week as many hours as I can. I hate to come home because no one cares if I am home at all
I have two great sons. Three great grandsons.
They live there lives way far away.
So I have been single fir so many years it’s hard to figure out how many. Can’t find someone to care about. They all seem to have so many problems it’s better to be alone
So there you go I am alone. I give up.
I have seen so much and been though so much. Both Dude did my family is gone. I have a few distant cousins. It seem I have given up hope to have a relationship
Do you know how many times I have heard theses words. Well when you stop looking it will happen.
I spend my soars time helping people. That seem so help me is a lot of ways. Anyway that’s my story
God bless you all if you read my post
Peace

gr**********:

What an honest and sobering talk about life and death. I'm glad he didn't go down the well versed path of saying that what matters in life is family and friends. The comforts in life can come at a much simpler cost, like baking cookies, playing, or just honest compassion. I think we're on the path to being more people-centric. Even though the internet is flooded with comments that would never be uttered in real-life by those very commenters. Still, it was worse in the past. I think people in general have a better sense that a real person, who shares the same time and space, is commenting or better yet sharing a thought. Hopefully in this lifetime I'll see the day that governments stop propaganda that champions being an individual who's success is measured in how much currency they have, and instead champions community, honesty and compassion at all levels. It's the disconnect that people have with each other that leads to war and angst. Hopefully things will change one day....

Ok***********:

Now 36y of age; brought into this world by schizophrenic mother, taken away from her because she abused me (found out recently that someone saved my life by bringing me into the hospital) placed into orphanage, there after transferred into another in Russia. Finally being adopted at 10 years of age by an America mother who mentally and physically abused me until I moved out @ 18. I feel blessed to have gone through my journey to understand and appreciate life for what it is today. I made peace with all my horrors and view my life/world from a beautiful point of view. One day I hope to accomplish something bigger than myself, this will be my biggest dream come true. Life can be a beautiful, heaven on , all depends on how you look at it, with your and mind. May each one of you enjoy your journey. Thank you TED for continued inspiration.

 

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