[Youtube Review][TED] How to fix a broken heart | Guy Winch

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Summary Comments : [TED] How to fix a broken heart | Guy Winch

Ad*********:

Here's my list:
1. She could see that I was completely invested in her from the first day but she remained unspoken of her unwillingness to love me, and fed on my vulnerabilities like a parasite!
2. I'd know everytime she'd be down with sadness, and give up on everything important just to be there with her to commiserate but she'd advise me to not be an emotional fool when I'd feel sad about something, like wtf!
3. It was always her for me, always! But she would check out on other guys as well and compare, sometimes suggestively and sometimes on my face, my qualities with theirs!
4. She'd play mind games and find ways of convincing me that it was always my fault when things went wrong, and given the decimation of my self esteem in the relationship I'd always apologize for everything because I just couldn't think of taking the arguments any further because I feared that it might advance into something dangerous for my relationship with her. And I never wanted to lose her, never because I loved her.
5. I prioritised her over myself, and she probably had me just above her favorite sandals in the priority hierarchy!

 

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Playtime Comments : [TED] How to fix a broken heart | Guy Winch

jo********:

5:50
damn even tho he ain't talkin to me i got hit right in the painful spot

 

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Top Comments : [TED] How to fix a broken heart | Guy Winch

Do***********:

WE ARE GOING TO HEAL

vi***:

So boring.. those so called good advices from "real" people under each comment to contact spell doctors etc. Stalking everybody with whatsapp numbers

Ka*************:

Whenever you're ruminating about your ex. Watch and rewatch this!

Qu*****:

It’s so heartbreaking when the person you love doesn’t love you

Te**********:

Hope is the most dangerous thing ever during a break up

Ja*****:

who found this by searching up heartbreak

El********:

I bursted into tears at the beginning of the video. I couldn’t stop realizing how true everything he said was. If anyone out there is feeling deep pain, don’t feel alone. Many of us are. We will get over it.

Ja**************:

I just don’t see how to get over this... she was my best friend. The love of my life, the only person who I cared about, I don’t understand why this is happening... I miss her so much. Why did she leave....

Wa******:

This is my sixth how to overcome a broken heart.

Jo******:

I really needed to hear this right now.

Me********:

When he says I didn't want you to catch feelings like this but fails to take accountability for putting himself out there the way he did in the first place

co************:

My passive aggressive Spotify playlist has me in chains, I'm a weakling lol

Th*******:

“But you do now” that was such a mic drop moment for me.. thank you for the video

Pr****************:

A person can love you for years, and wake up one day and just decide they don’t want to be with you anymore.. All it takes is a tiny shift in the mind, and their feelings are like they never existed..That’s why in a relationship you should ALWAYS expect the worst, no matter how much you think a person loves you or cares about you, some people get tired & some people can’t stay with one person forever.. It’s all about timing.

22*******:

The saddest part is when they give you "hope" when its actually never gonna happen.

Ja*******:

"He simply wasn't in love" wow that's what my ex bf told me

Aa*************:

"If you can love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you can love the right one."

The quote is obviously not mine, but it definitely helped me a bit so thought I'd share...

To****:

All I want to do right now is cry and scream and let it all out because it's killing me inside.

Ru*************:

I was so good to her, sacrificed my time, my resources for her. I was loyal and devoted to her. Until she went to a new environment, met some new people. Then a friend of mine texted me photos and videos where another person was hugging her, sleeping on her breast everyday. I asked her 3 times, she lied all 3 times. Her friends block me on socials so as i don't ask. My heart broke. I cried almost every day. Now when fckboys come to her and when she got cheated. She came back to me. I still have a soft corner for her but its too late. You can fix a broken mirror. It will never be the same.

Before leaving she said im outdated and i should chill in life. Now look at her, life was not kind to me for a couple month. But for her it won't be for years.
Hope you guys move on.

Me*****:

She had depression, I stood by her side day by day, I learned more about depression just to be a better bf and give better support, It got to the point where my mental health started going downhill and my happiness was gone, Yet she’s the one who left and my mind keeps repeating the same words “she was depressed...”

Mi*************:

It's about to be 1 year since I broke up but still very hard to move on, and to trust someone.

Ja***********:

To all the heartbroken peeps in the comments, I'm with you, and I love y'all. We gonna get through this

To******:

6 years together, I’m hurting. I hope I can feel better one day

Ab***********:

Soldiers we will rise again! Stay strong.

He***********:

It's been 4 month's since I watched this video for the first time, it is amazingly useful. Thanks a lot.
Also, what I would like to add is:
Social media has made us believe that one day someone will come in our life and that will magically fix everything that's broken in our life, which is a big delusion.
I stopped waiting for that "someone" to come in. Instead, I enjoy my life on my own. Don't need anyone's approval, when someone will come in, we will deal with it than and there. But today, it's not the day I waste by waiting. I got to take care of myself.

Ni************:

The pain does slowly fade, it’s very true. The first few months were horrendous to say the least (especially the ones during lockdown, when I couldn’t even go out with some friends to get my mind off of her), but after that you start to get better and the days don’t feel excruciatingly long anymore.
The only problem: the loneliness doesn’t go away, and it’s killing me (yes, I quoted Britney Spears).
I dedicated most of my time to her, I made huge sacrifices (and she knew it, since a few of those she specifically asked for), and, since I loved her with my whole heart, I felt like it was definitely worth it.
She still left me though, and I’m just... alone. I got used to having someone to talk to whenever I felt like it, someone that understood me and appreciated me, and now I’m just not able to go back to how it was before. Actually, it’s worse than before, because for 3 years she was almost the only one I would discuss serious, emotional or personal topics with, so now it just feels weird to do it with my friends.
I know that if she actually were the love of my life she wouldn’t have left me, I know that she had flaws and I now know that she probably didn’t love me as much as I did, in any point of our relationship. The thing is, I just need her...
It feels like I was picked up by a boat in the middle of the ocean, and then, after a while, I forgot how to swim... only to be thrown back into the water.
I’m just not strong enough to swim again.

Ch*******:

Accept that it is over...
And you realise your mind coming up with absolutely crazy ideas to may be somehow keep going, the ideas that aren't even possible!!!
Ugh... Why is it so hard accept.

Ju*********:

To those in the comments that feel they will never heal, I promise that it does get better. A year ago, I never thought I'd be able to live normally again but I feel like a new person today. The insomnia, the intense chest pain, the night terrors, the endless toxic thoughts that I couldn't shake no matter how hard I tried. I truly thought I'd never be normal again and that the rest of my life would be endless suffering. The key turning point for me was when I stopped feeding the addiction as suggested by Winch. I stopped looking through old texts, old photos, social media, etc. I stopped questioning why and started accepting the fact that if they were truly the "one", I wouldn't be left searching for answers as to why they were not in my life. You are only damaging yourself by trying to keep up with their present life when you know that you're not a factor in it. I deleted everything and the memories have slowly faded and I finally was able to move on with my life. Love all of you.

Wi********:

I feel like my problem is, whenever I’ve managed to stop thinking about them and start feeling joy, my mind reminds me that I should still feel unhappy

Gr*******:

" A person who values you, wouldn't ever put themselves in a position to lose you."

s1**:

My one true love broke up with me now he's getting married. I'm over here drinking and not sleeping every night. Lost the plot

op**********:

F that guy who led me on for nearly 3 full years straight then humiliated me when I called things off! You left me for a rebound you never respected. Now you will hopefully learn the difference between the real love i gave you and fake hookup love.

P.S. You broke my heart because of your insecurities. I can put it together again and find someone better.

Pa***********:

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Ar***********:

It takes time, but heartbreak does end.

It will end for you who is reading this...

Fa***:

Trying to get over someone... got no closure, its the most horrible feelings ive ever had.. still hoping he might come back, every morning i open my eyes and hope to see his message, every night i lay down hoping he would call.. dont know how long its going to take until i feel back normal again.. i hate the sinking feeling in my stomach everyday.. why are people so cruel and heartless??

Av********:

Note to self-
You were never his priority.
He is in relationship with some other girl.
Moving to same city does not mean that he will suddenly fall in love with you.
He told you that consider him to be your brother.
He never took any stand for you.
He never accepted that you were in relationship.
He was telling your friend that you were behind him and he has no feelings.
It was mutual but then he said that it was always one-sided.
He never cared about you.

Don'ts

Don't have any hopes.
Don't stalk him.
Don't listen to love or breakup songs.
Don't waste so much time on your phone.

Do's-

Work hard and become a software engineer like you have dreamt.
Make your parents feel proud.
Enjoy your life.

Bw*****:

I see people talking about “the hardest part” well for me the hardest part is knowing there was still work to be done in the relationship but that person just decides to give up on you. You haven’t exhausted all options, and determined that it just isn’t working, but the other person just won’t put in the necessary work to keep the relationship going. It’s left me hurting so much & confused on why it was so hard to love me when all I asked was for the basic necessities of love. Most of us all deserve better, but we just wish that person was the better. Heartbreak fucking sucks

Ti***:

I needed to hear this so bad... after being with my ex for 10 years and get blindsided dump... I never felt a pain like that before in my life. I got physically sick and didn’t sleep for about three days and had to call my mother in the middle of the night/ morning and she has been my rock. I was doing okay for about two days... i cried for 4 days straight. Then two days I’m doing okay but today has been terrible and I just want the hurt to stop. Our relationship wasn’t perfect by any means but I figure 10 years we been through a lot so there is nothing we couldn’t get through. Three weeks ago talking different apartments and all. This passed November we made a promise to each other that we would never give up on each other and he gave up on me. I just want this hurt gone dude. I never begged a man before in my life and I begged him not to do this and I felt so... I don’t know, not right. Oh and he dump me over text.

 

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