[Youtube Review][TEDx Talks] The sex-starved marriage | Michele Weiner-Davis | TEDxCU

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This time, I will review the popular YouTube videos.

These days, even if it's good to watch on YouTube, sometimes people skip it or don't watch it if it's too long.

When you watch Youtube, do you scroll and read the comments first?

To save your busy time, why don't you check out the fun contents, summary, and empathy comments of popular YouTube videos first and watch YouTube?

(Recommended)Popular Videos : [TEDx Talks] The sex-starved marriage | Michele Weiner-Davis | TEDxCU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep2MAx95m20

 

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Playtime Comments : [TEDx Talks] The sex-starved marriage | Michele Weiner-Davis | TEDxCU

Sm*:

5:15 Min. I had to laugh so hard when the man at the bottom started notting when she said that

ze*******************:

10:47
story of my life

Gl*****:

17:35 mins on why I won't get married

Be******:

7:03 the story of my life for 13 years now. Benn there done that and guess what, it last for a few weeks and then back to the same old thing. I've checked out.

re***************:

10:45h I feel she could be a descendant from Master Yoda...?

Bo**********:

7:12 two minutes into this I was in tears as well :(

Es********:

8:10

Da**********:

11:41

 

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Top Comments : [TEDx Talks] The sex-starved marriage | Michele Weiner-Davis | TEDxCU

Ma********:

Choose your mate carefully and take your time doing so.

re*******************:

Its tuff bcz the last thing u want is for your partner to do it just 4u, to take one for the team. U want them to want u like u want them.

Ke**************:

best is to stay single, i have had it . Im goin to stay single til i go to Valhalla .

Ga*************:

Cool lady...her compassion shines through.

Ch***********:

I lost all feelings in my relationship when he kept asking the neighbor’s wives to help us furnish our home!

Vi************:

I had to take breaks watching this because I couldn't stop crying. I've always been the one that sought more connection, more touch, and in my marriages, it eventually ruined them both. I am older now, and hopefully wiser, but I am back in the same boat. I am trying to learn from my mistakes, be more tolerant, patient, and understanding, but I'm still having difficulty with the disconnect. Her comments about rejection hit me so hard that I still have tears sliding down my cheeks. I know he loves me, but knowing it and feeling it are completely different things. I'm asking him to watch this. I need to know I'm not alone, because it always feels as though I am.

Mi*********:

There is some point when you are just afraid of more rejection and stoped trying, now i get it why, it literally hurts

Ky*******:

Sometimes a person just needs to say "Put the effing phone down!!"

Ma***********:

Respectfully, it’s torture when they know exactly how you feel however He/She is just thinking of themselves.

Sa***********:

If you constantly withhold the love... That's the meanest thing you can do to your partner.. & that's the downhill for your relationship..

Ke*******:

Gawd, she described my relationship! Now we are at the point of just keeping me alive. If you have something to do, do it today because you may not have a tomorrow.

ja*********:

I had 15 years of no's, and after the divorce she said she made a terrible mistake, BUT by that time the IN-LOVE was gone.

No******:

I was just crying, how accurate this is

jo******:

Married couples definitely need to both feel connection and intimacy—how that is achieved varies greatly.

Ch**********:

Perfect last name for this topic! Classic.

ds*************:

I'm in this right now, and feel like I can't leave for a lot of reasons. It's been years, and it is misery.

Mi********:

Thanks you soooo much for this vid!!! Our marriage has been transformed overnite~~~

Jo***********:

As a therapist who works with a lot of couples especially around the issues of sexuality, I have to say she is spot on. I'l be recommending this video to my clients.

WL**:

This is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true.  I was partnered for 11 years and my Ex's sex drive is much lower and the last few years were unsatisfying.  I wasn't getting good sex and sex with him is like a "task, a chore".  I wasn't happy.  Sexual compatibility is so important.

bo******:

Divorce; starts in the bedroom, ends in the courtroom.

Br***********:

My wife needs to have a nice long talk with this woman. I now see why my wife’s exhubby cheated. I should’ve talked to him on why they split. It’s truly the loneliest feeling to lay next to someone and they not want to touch you in any capacity. FML

Br*******:

I have never before heard such an eloquently expressed explanation of the importance of intimacy in a relationship! You are amazing :)

An***********:

As a Therapist of 34 years, I can say she's Very good.

Da**********:

Yup. Cheap shot at her husband to kick off her "unbiased" advice....

Va***********:

I thought she was doing the national anthem at the end. Very nice! I'm glad I watched this.

H:

wow. all (perhaps, grown) couples should watch this.

Ha***********:

This woman knows what she’s talking about! I know first hand
But I tried talking and doing things. But 20 years down the road you just have to realize that doing good things does get you anything but more requirements for additional deliveries on your part without compensation!
So I called quits and ended the charade.

dq*****:

Choose your mate carefully and take your time doing so.

Ti********:

I love this so much.

Br******:

I have struggled with a sex starved marriage for years.  Read your book, discussed with my wife, asked her to read your book, have seen councilors (wife refused to attend) and it was all to no avail.  She says she enjoys sex but still continued to refuse. I felt so humiliated continually asking and being refused that I left it in her hands for her to let me know when she was up to being intimate.  I thought at least I won't have the continual humiliation of refusal.  Big mistake.  Her response was sex once in 47 months.  You are right on about the person saying "no" having absolute power.  Have felt humiliated, powerless, unworthy and unappreciated for years and strangely enough I am still crazy in love with my wife.  She is a good woman, a good mother, a good daughter to her aging parents. She is well respected in our community and liked by all her know her.  I am not aware of her hurting anyone except me.  The most recent kick is that she told me that she is in a relationship with another man and has since moved out.  When she told me she said that I was a good man but that we don't do anything together any more, we don't talk, we don't seem to have time for each other. Very true but not due to my lack of trying. She sees this as a time for her to find happiness with another man.  I honestly feel that I could not have done more.  28 years of marriage gone. My wife in a relationship with a married man who will not be leaving his wife.  My life has dramatically changed.  I will be OK and the divorce will be amicable but I have got to admit that it really hurts.  Thank God for friends and for daughters that understand how hard I have tried and continue to emotionally support us both.  My 2015 resolution is "Move On".  Life sometimes throws you a curve ball and sometimes you go down swinging but at least you were in the game.

Da***********:

I've been with my partner for twenty years. We've watched everyone around us split up. I think we work because we are like kids still. we curl up together every night. we watch tv, talk, spend time together. And we have sex as often as we can. We enjoy each other. I learned early on that if i want the best from my spouse, she needs me to be there. Not just in the same house but WITH her. I hit on her and flirt constantly. We both joke and laugh. We play fight. We cuddle. We talk to each other and do things for each other. Much is made of us all needing to be busy and rushing off to do things for the sake of doing them. I doubt many people at the end of their lives wish they'd been to more karate lessons, took more cooking classes etc. A lot of people wish they had more sex, and had held on to someone they love. Relationships work as long as you make each other your priority.

 

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[TEDx Talks] We gathered comments about popular videos and looked at them in summary, including play time, and order of popularity.

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