[Youtube Review][TED] Why I'm done trying to be "man enough" | Justin Baldoni

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Playtime Comments : [TED] Why I'm done trying to be "man enough" | Justin Baldoni

Is*******:

15:23 When people applause I judged them, then he said "I gotta be honest I wish I didn't get any applause." I was like DAMMMNNN BOY you be readin my mind

Jo******:

4:40 "he's here." that made my heart dance true beauty. thank you for this. all my love to you!

Sa*************:

0:55 yesss Rafael who’s here from Jane the virgin?

So****:

8:46 ans. Because they want your icecream.

Sw****:

6:24 - I can relate to that part and I’m a woman, but ig it’s because I’m introvert, shy and just don’t want to talk about my private life to others. I feel much better just keeping that to myself.

 

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Top Comments : [TED] Why I'm done trying to be "man enough" | Justin Baldoni

Ca**************:

No lies, when I first saw Justin's role in a segment as an actor last year I rolled my eyes. "Stereotypical". After seeing this, I don't know if I could identify a stronger man. Vulnerability is the MOMENTUM that starts movement, that will ultimately lead to change. A happier, healthier, more honest world. Who couldn't get behind that? Thank you JustinXTed

Ni**********:

You sure did reach me, man.
And i think this is like the most effective way to start attacking the sexist problems in our societies. Because mostly (that's what i experienced) the feminists tend to see us, the men, as the problem and tend to see, that we men like to be assholes, rapists, whatever. But we are also part of the suffering, cause we've been given a role, that hurts us as well and changes the way we behave instead of what we what to behave. Just like you comparised with your job as an actor.
I think both men and women are part of the problem because both of them give us men the role we play, men and women are giving these roles to men as a society, and if we start changing this role (to become better humans as you say), the problem will more likely solve itself i think.

Ra*********:

I am also done being man enough.


Bye bye stereotypes.

An*******:

"As if being gay makes you less of a man"

Mi*************:

Wow...I felt it when he said "are you brave enough to be vulnerable?" It's like I needed to hear it...I don't show any emotion...I don't cry in front of my parents...I cry alone where no one can see me

Ch*****:

PSA for men who might not have realized it: this is why “friendzoning” happens (and why the “women can fix men” idea persists)—often, men only feel able to open up to women, and usually their first time getting that close to a woman is when they’re in relationships with them. thus, they see vulnerability and emotional connection as inherently romantic (and also will dump ALL their problems on said girl bc theyve never been able to before, where she has an emotional support network of friends). so when they have a female friend who they get close to in that way, they see it as clearly romantic while the girl is just being a friend like she would be for all friends. EVERYONE loses when men cant have those relationships with each other

ST**************:

As a transgender woman I got him. My previous male self knew that he wasn't male enough. He had to pretend to be this manly man and it wasn't him. He had to pretend to be someone he wasn't for forty years. Finally he realized that he was me, Stevonnie.

Da**********:

I'm so glad I live at a time and place where this is being talked about. My only wish is that it had happened long before I was born. But at least we have time to do better for the next generations.

wM********:

Guess what? this dude was my favorite character of the series Jane The Virgin. I didn't know why I liked him so much until today.

Em***********:

That is a Real man. Who is a compassionate, honest and courageous person

Sz****:

I am male. I cried while watching this and I AM NOT ASHAMED OF THAT.

Mi*****:

This hit me hard as a guy who never felt excepted by other guys. I feel encouraged to be me and let positive vibes flow!

Da*********:

My dad commit suicide when I was 8. I just learned he was sexually abused and took a really tough role in his childhood. I get it now. I feel sorry he couldn't talk to anybody so he started to drink.
I love this talk! Beautiful.

em**:

I want a guy who’s as in touch w his feelings as this man is

ba**************:

As a man... this is one of the best TED talks i've seen.

Jo*:

The world needs more men like this, there is nothing wrong with being sensitive and emotional, doesn't make you any less of a man

Mo*********:

I'm just like him. Thank you

An******************:

Oh god, this made me cry so bad. I can't put into words how important this is. Just increased my hope in humanity 150% , thank you so much Justin.

Sa*********:

Justin, I have always respected you as an actor but this has just made me speechless. I love you and thank you for sharing this. For taking up the difficult journey that you have. Wish you all the success and joy!

Sh***************:

Stereotypes of what is 'feminine' and 'masculine' should end. Many men suffer abuse at the hands of female partners, yet they are laughed at, jeered, by peers and others for not being 'man' enough. Women are discouraged from building muscle and overall strength because that's "for men."

These stereotypes are hurting our society, and are not beneficial to anyone, of any gender.

Ru******************:

As a guy myself, I’ve never had toxic masculinity in my life. I was always kind and generous and always loving and as a kid that was considered from other guys to be weak. But did not care because being kind, loving, sensitive, and a leader is what a true man should be and I am that leader who stands by all men. Kindness wins man and I hope all my times can lead me to a happy relationship with whoever girl that might be. This ted talk changed my life when watched it and I hope it does for most men like myself too.

KL*:

Run for President. I'll vote for you. You got the touch!!

Hi*********:

Me before the video: 18 minutes long!!!!
Me after the video: keep going dude...!!!

In***********:

As soon as those two words were spoken- "Me too". I couldn't take it. I completely broke down. Bless the soul of this wonderful person.

Em*****:

The amount of love I hold for him, one day I pray that I am lucky enough to find and have someone like this in my life.

Ki**********:

Blessed to know I’m not alone to be like that, to accept being sensitive or weak

Sa*************:

This is what I have always thinking about since so long. It felt so good listening to this.

Al****************:

When is my Justin Baldoni going to show up in my life??

as*******:

Woha - he is such a gentleman. Bless you brother, you are a blessing and an inspiration

da*******:

hi Justin thanks for doing this speech i'm a gay man and often feel like i'm less of a man cause my dad never taught me how to be a handy man or worked on cars or hunting either i hate sports he taught me camping at least so i get it! hearing you share your story really helped cause i thought i'm not man enough cause i'm not those things so thank you for showing me that those things don't make a man a man it's the heart

Sh***********:

We need more men like him, straight from heaven!

Vr*:

I’m a 20 year man who struggles with masculinity. My father was relatively absent for most of my life and I was raised mostly by my mom, aunt, and grandma. Ive struggled my whole life with masculinity and was always called soft growing up. I attended an all boys school in high school and it made me “tougher” but I’d still get made fun of. It’s so hard. One of the reasons my ex and I broke up was because I was insecure of her exes (who we’d interact with often) who were traditional manly men. This video blessed me. I’m struggling to find self worth because I’m not a traditionally masculine man. This video is helping me find my worth. Thank you so much Justin.

Ab************:

Sadly, ive seen so many women trash talk sensitive PEOPLE in general. This ted talk isnt for only men to work on , its for women too . So i hope there is a woman watching this and not saying YES MEN SHOULD DO THAT. Women should do something too. Stop neglecting and condemning and sensitive person. Stop calling people gay or assuming they are. Stop assuming your partner isnt sensitive just because of their gender, stop running after people that arent as sensitive as you and settle for a brick wall. This life isnt short, ITS LONG, dont live each day living by others example. You wanna be happy and get who you want, WAIT AND FIND EM. This polarity doesnt exist but is present only in our hearts from conditioned thinking. Are we willing to admit we are conditioned in the first place?. LETS START THERE.

Kr*********:

I agree with a lot of this message, but I think it does downplay the role of women in perpetuating the issue. Women also need to learn how to accept and deal with male expressions of emotion and vulnerability.

I've been dumped because I was upset and scared before a worrying medical procedure. I've had someone actually stop loving me after I broke down and cried in front of her, because we were going to be apart and I was going to miss her. I know enough men with similar experiences.

Telling men to open up and embrace their vulnerability is a good thing, but saying that we are the sole problem is short sighted.

Women aren't always the warm, glowing beacons of empathy you paint them as. They are imperfect beings, just like men, and they do play their part in the internalisation of male emotion.

Ar*********:

I'm a man, but i was raised by my mother, so i don't have ANY of those problems, it's easy to me to cry, to talk about my problems..... but my problem is, this way i was raised, i have 0 competition in me.... for real, i'm 100% coop guy, but in our society this is bad, you will lose on carrer, you will be questioned by every single superior you have as not beeing enough..... and i'm really sick of it.... sometimes i wish i was able to be this role model of man..... so i didn't have to deal with people not trusting me work or my methods because i'm not this role model of what they expect......

 

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