[Youtube Review][TED] Make love, not porn (Adult content) | Cindy Gallop

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(Recommended)Popular Videos : [TED] Make love, not porn (Adult content) | Cindy Gallop

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV8n_E_6Tpc

 

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Top Comments : [TED] Make love, not porn (Adult content) | Cindy Gallop

Tr********:

Omg what is that fumbling sound in the background?

Ci*********:

Thank you so much! I'm thrilled you like MakeLoveNotPorn!

ri*****:

She was trying to bring up a serious issue and the audience kept laughing....ok, real mature guys -.-

Ye*******:

Why are these people laughing? This is a serious issue.

Bi*******:

God/Source bless her for what she's doing. Good and needed work. Very courageous of her

ka**********:

I'm appalled at the many derogatory and completely off-topic remarks in this thread. I also couldn't understand why people in the audience were laughing at some point. I guess they felt uncomfortable and prefer to remain in denial of the real life problem that hardcore porn raises for some people. Ms. Gallop, thank you very much for raising this topic shunned by many, which desperately needs to be discussed for the benefit of many young people. I applaud you.

Mr***:

It's all personal choices. Respect your partner's likes n dislikes.

Ho***********:

If a teen abstinence campaign won't work why would sexual reeducation work?

Be***************:

Earrings on the mic

Ci*********:

I knowww..never wearing those earrings again :)

Ra*******************:

She's just worried that kids will be think that this is the way they have to have sex

Ke**************:

Cindy Gallop, your self-confidence is impressive. I'd like to thank you for the good you are doing. Yet also, I think that, your provocative nature of the speech will evoke a ton of negative comments and you deserve them. The subject you are talking is sensitive and you are doing that in far from most gentle way possible. You pretty much force people out of their comfort zone and generally, normal people don't like that. I wish you all the best in your quest.

Al******:

The average porn watcher cannot perform properly with a real partner. And porn is responsible for broken relationship to broken marriages. Only the selfish and the foolish ignore this problem.

Ci*********:

Well, thanks for the compliment darling :) That video was filmed in 2009 when I was 49 - I'm 53 now. I don't have any children, and so I'm afraid I am not accurately speaking a 'granny' :) I could be wrong here, but I suspect you wouldn't stop living your life the way you choose to bc a stranger on a YouTube comment stream told you to? I respect your right to live your life the way you decide to, and in the same way, I will continue to live mine. Thank you for your straightforward feedback.

Ne******:

well you know guys could always just go find women who like that stuff

Al***:

I see it's an upload in 2009, I hope she changed her speech even though she should have done more research to support all facts she refers to. Just making a point out. She said Porn is driven, managed, directed by men. And I think it is wrong as there are women porn-stars that are also managers, directors or producers of Porn, there are a few women owners of porn agencies or production companies as well, in the last decade. So I think she should restructure her speech and include maybe the names of those particular women if she wants to. I could say it is discriminating for men and has a strong feminist opinion as she refers to women as victims who just can't refuse doing some things their husbands/boyfriends ask during sex. Thank you.

Do****:

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00*******:

The audience laughing displays incredible and SHAMEFUL IMMATURITY. Cindy is 100% correct on her observations. This is a real problem and leads to erosion of the concept of true intimacy and if not seriously addressed could contribute to things like domestic violence and worse. There's needs to be a new sexual revolution to wake people up, especially the younger generation!

My*******:

EXCELLENT!  Parents absolutely NEED to pass this on to their sons and daughters.

pe********:

Backstage there is a group of audio engineers angrily twitching and glaring at who ever mic'ed her.

Wa***************:

Jesus loves you so much!!!!

Um*********:

#CindyGallop. I truly admire you after watching this.

Ri*************:

Your choice of men is a direct reflection of you.

LR****:

Land of the free! ...Now please adhere and follow the regulations and guidelines on how to live you're life, including you're most private aspects that effects these people 0%.

Bl*****:

I have some negative feelings towards her that others have stated already but to be honest I am impressed by how open she is about her opinion. 

Th**********:

what's so funny?

su****:

She is 100% ON POINT

Da******:

I appreciate Gallop's talk.

I'm surprised the TED crew didn't get rid of her earrings before the talk.
The TED team really dropped the ball this time.

ei*********:

the clicking of her mic is annoying

Ci*********:

It's the laughter of discomfort, and we're out to eradicate it ultimately :)

Kr********:

wtf is that noise????

Er****:

We talk here in the comment section, anonymously on the internet, but not in real life. This already is part of the problem I guess.
Any germans here btw?

th**************:

what if i think of a certain person whilst joinking my pillow? does that count?

El*************:

Great website! It's good to hear this.

Ja**********:

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT!

xi*******:

"I hadn't noticed!" Apparently neither have your lovers. :-) Cheers!

La****:

Everything she said was spot on! 

Ma***********:

The shortest and one of the best TED talks I have ever watched.

Ra**********:

I've seen porn itself online since I was 5, and being 17 now, I just recently have become sexually active. Porn doesn't corrupt anyone, but it leaves you thinking you have all the stamina in the world. Because of all the types of porn, my tastes are wide, but when I actually try my ideal fetishes and such with my boyfriend, I realize things don't go so smoothly in reality. It's disappointing and embarrassing, but you get past that. But in porn you do not see communication, and I think that is another reason so many people force things onto their partner, and so many reasons their partner struggle to say no. Because we assume this is what sex should be. You get shoved onto a couch, after no build up and shove it in. I actually now have a rape-fantasy fetish because of the average porn you see everyday. There are porn where men and women dominate, and I think that's fine. But I wish things weren't cut or acted out so much. Don't be afraid to laugh a little, get messy and mess up your makeup. Hold hands, kiss, compliment. Maybe use hands more often, get to know the rest of each other's body, too. Just so many NORMAL, PLEASANT things are left out in the average porn and it's incredibly frustrating realizing how ignorant the directors can be. It leaves you socially awkward IN BED.

 

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