[Youtube Review][TED] Get comfortable with being uncomfortable | Luvvie Ajayi Jones

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This time, I will review the popular YouTube videos.

These days, even if it's good to watch on YouTube, sometimes people skip it or don't watch it if it's too long.

When you watch Youtube, do you scroll and read the comments first?

To save your busy time, why don't you check out the fun contents, summary, and empathy comments of popular YouTube videos first and watch YouTube?

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QijH4UAqGD8

 

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Summary Comments : [TED] Get comfortable with being uncomfortable | Luvvie Ajayi Jones

Je************:

1. Do you mean it
2. Can you defend it
3. Did you say it with love

3 questions to always keep in mind when speaking up about something.

An**:

"When it's time to say these hard things:
1. Did you mean it?
2. Can you defend it?
3. Did you say it with love?"

ne******:

Checkpoints:
1. Did you mean it?
2. Can you defend it?
3. Did you say it with love?

"Telling thoughtful truth should not be a revolutionary act."
- Luvvie Ajayi Jones

Bu********:

Her checkpoint for deciding whether to speak up with confidence. I loved this. 1. Do you mean it? 2.Can you defend it? 3. Can you say it with Love?

He****************:

2 years later and the first time i've seen this and 1. Your a whole vibe, 2. You are talking to me and 3. Thank you

 

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Playtime Comments : [TED] Get comfortable with being uncomfortable | Luvvie Ajayi Jones

Ke***************:

6:05 -> "I believe in Shea butter as a core value."

This statement alone deserves a

Congrats Luvvie

Da*******:

I'm only at 6:55 and already love the messages of this video.

En********:

"People and system counts on our silence to keep us exactly where we are" 9:02

 

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Top Comments : [TED] Get comfortable with being uncomfortable | Luvvie Ajayi Jones

La****:

I'm an expert in making myself just comfortable enough for a while, then I feel guilt and disappoint that overrides the feeling of comfort so I take the next bit of action to get back to comfort. It's so frustrating! Can anyone relate?

Na************:

Amazing!! ...at 49yrs old I really needed this Word of Truth, Tears! It's never too late

Ia**************************:

the BEST TED ever, thank you very much for this ...

1- did you mean it
2- can you defend it
3- did you say it with love.

"Perfect" ...

Ms**********:

"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell"- Luvvie Ajayi

da***:

i liked this talk and especially the domino metaphor

Mi*************:

WHO ELSE IS WATCHING THIS IN 2020? This is so timely

NA*********:

I watched her in a documentary called "she did that" on Netflix.
It's basically about black women entrepreneurs,She is amazing.
They all are...

So*******:

This woman is me, and I am her. Same experiences, and she has done something that I have wanted to do, yet I put it off for 4 year's. I have since decided that this is the year. I love it! Congrats sister! Keep up the phenomenal work! I salute you!

Ha*********:

"How am I gonna keep my shoe habit? that's important to me!" Loool

Al********:

Wow! she is Amusing, About positive people, good moral fun, psychological comfort
Happiness from the heart of dignity
Personality, and interactions with people towards positive

Mo***:

This woman is very powerful. She conducts herself in a manner of which many people couldn’t imagine themselves doing. I really love it when she said that she chooses to yell in a world that wants us to whisper. Motivation at its finest. Thank you

My*********:

I’m a professional trouble maker, too. absolutely loved this message. So relatable

“All comfort has done has maintained the status quo.”

Al***:

"My silence serves no one. So I fearfully spoke up about it publicly."

Be*****:

Super inspirational! Love her energy!

TA**********:

Best Ted Talk Ever!
Today onwards, be the domino! be the change!

Ca*********:

-Fight or flight. 
-Get comfortable w/being uncomfortable.
I hear these all the time dealing w/social anxiety.
2018 will be my year. Conquering my fear.
"The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."

No*********:

Capricorn!!!

Ra********:

Lady, if you ever read that comment i like to say to you how you gave me power. I'm always uncomfortable and assumed few months ago how unhappy that I am and you just show me how to use it as a power and a source of motivation. You are fearce. Your face is stunning and I wanna paint you and hang in my wall always remembering what I learned with you.

Si**:

Perfect, I have a speech tomorrow hahahaba

Pa*******:

Helping someone else to stand and speak up is part of being alive and real. Guess I've always been a "domino" and didn't realize it. Not that I yell much. I always mean it, I usually can defend it and I hope I always say it with love.

Su*************:

When she said "comfort is overrated" felt that wholeheartedly

bl*****:

This is one to save and replay!

Bi*********:

I feel her on everything that she says...I am a silent Libra and I keep my ideas, resolutions, everything silent to just me and my thoughts alone. After this, I will slowly start to come out of my shell and will become more verbal with my ideas and opinions.

Jo**:

She's beautiful...

Ad**********:

Silence keeps us where we are.

Po************:

"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are"

Ka*********:

I'm a Professional Trouble Maker.
Everybody's Well Being Is Community Business.
Being Yourself Could Be A Revolutionary Act.

La**************:

An amazing woman indeed . The thing is when people are too quiet ,and the rest too loud , there's no room for unterstanding . I am often both . Those 3 questions I will start use them too ,such a great way to start 2018 .
I am so sorry for the racism and discrimination ...beautiful hearts &mind have no color

Au**********:

Very well spoken & well dressed

Ma*********:

“Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.”

Ha********:

This is a great talk, and I encourage everyone to 'be the domino' as she puts it.
I would however also encourage everyone reading this to investigate yourselves.
It is very easy for those in a privileged position to not investigate our own beliefs and values, what we advocate, believing we already know it all. I know this from my own experience.

I held racist beliefs, yet I didn't see them as racist. I held sexist beliefs, and I did not see these as sexist either.
It is difficult to confront your own bigotry, it isn't something immediately clear because it is covered by a veil of "That's just how it is".
What ripped me out of this mindset was listening to others. Women, black people, trans people speaking up about the various harmful power dynamics they face.

Ka*********:

At 72, I've given up being the "silent" revolutionary. When I was younger, I voiced support for a newly graduated black female with a degree in health care administration. I was a manager under her at the time, but her position was desired by the staff pharmacist. He lied about my position. No one ever bothered to ask me about it, including the young lady. I lost my job over it and eventually so did she. A couple of years later, she stopped my husband on the street to apologise. The polnt is that we must commit ourselves to listen to each other, every day and in our courts, truthfully without the bias of racism or sexism. I spent most of my life thinking that I was protecting myself and my family, but many people will do anything for a buck. They won't care when the result is murder, destroyed health and financial stability of a family or anything else. They're own personal goal (s) is the only one that matters. Getting the dominoes to fall correctly takes concentration, education and timing.

 

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